We are who and what we think we are. It really is that simple. Every person we see meet or pass on the street will make their own version of us up in their heads. We have no control over that. It simply does not matter what ANYONE thinks of us. the problem is we often think too little of ourselves. Have you ever monitored your thoughts even for a day? The things we say to ourselves. I used to have thoughts in my head about myself that I wouldn’t say to my worst enemy. I changed my thoughts. I learned how to take negative thoughts and turn them into positive ones. Some were easy. Some were very hard. Some I had to simply just change to neutral to start with. I still monitor my thoughts EVERY SINGLE MINUTE. But it is so worth it. I am living the most awesome, inspiring and positive life! if you want to join one of my groups here is the link.